It is amazing how we lose ourselves in relationships; we put so much into a person that we forget about the things that was once so important to us. Any relationship that does not take you for you is not a relationship for you. We tend to think we are at fault when a relationship fails, but reality is its not you sometimes we put so much into a relationship that we have lost ourselves and a failed relationship can be a way of trying to get you to find yourself again. Dealing with the wrong female/male can either help or hurt your life if you do not know who is really there for you. Some people may have hidden motives for their own personal gain, and you could make the mistake of your life by giving that person your heart. The most important thing you can do in life is know who you are before you get into a serious relationship with anyone because then you are secure with who you are and what you are looking for and you can get it all out on the table before a relationship even starts, but if you’re wandering the world clueless what good are you to anyone? If you allow other people to speak for you or make decisions for you then your just existing in this world and a ton of heartbreak is going to come your way to teach you who you are.
People are quick to have sex looking to fill a void they are missing in their life but sex without love is meaningless. However, you can’t help who you love sometimes you can make better decisions on who you give your heart too. All I can say is know you so when you feel you have found someone special they can get to know you and understand who you are so when things do get serious there is no misunderstanding and you don’t get so caught up in the relationship that you forget what use to be important to you. A person who will truly love you will accept you through your flaws, and really care to know everything about you from what makes you smile to what makes you cry, but if you don’t know how will they? Which leads to an eventual disaster.